When Granny Cramps Your Style: Ancestral Conversations Beyond the Veil

When I lived in New Orleans, all of the walls of my awareness came crashing down, and I saw Spirit everywhere. 
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One day, I felt a hand graze my thigh, even though I was alone. 

To my surprise, I was soon having a full on telepathic conversation with my Grandmother. I had half been expecting some Victorian ghost to appear- but no- my Granny was here and she finally had my full attention. 
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I learned she’d been with me since I was a young girl. What also became very evident, was that she had A LOT of opinions about my love life. 😳🤣
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Basically, Granny was cramping my style and literally getting in my head when it came to men (and my self-worth). 
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Often when our relatives don’t fully cross over, they end up hanging around, trying to “help” us. Ironically, their presence in our field can add density, gravity, and weight to any trauma and thought patterns we’ve genetically inherited from them.
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Talking with Granny was a first big shattering of the illusion that the voices I heard in my head were my own. It was through working with her, that I first learned how to do the work I so regularly help others with now. 
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During this process, I watched in my mind's eye as she transformed from my sweet little Granny to a tall, illuminated, Violet Blue Oscillation. This new “Granny” was no longer defined by polarity- she was both male and female, and she was of a realm beyond this world. This being gave me her name and to this day I am still able to call on her. Only now she doesn’t give me dating advice. 💕👵🏼
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She teaches me about the true nature of Love, by being an expression of it.
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She communicates with me through the clouds in the sky- not clouds in my head. 🌦⚡️🌈
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She is in full support of my relationship- AND healing her, helped heal my self worth, and call in a Love who is true reflection of that.
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In the container of ritual, Ancestral Healing can be done with ease and celebration, with humility and grace! It can melt all measures of shame and clear the way for more beauty, expansion, and possibility to enter our lives. 
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Learn to do this for yourself and others in I Call You Home: The Ancestor Course.

First published February 5th, 2022

Last Updated: January 2023